Relationship Built on Hidden Motives Is the Real Scam, Commentator Says A social commentator has argued that love and marriage are not scams, but that relationships become deceptive when individuals enter them with undisclosed financial, material, or personal motives.Speaking in a widely shared statement, the commentator said genuine love and healthy relationships remain valuable, stressing that the problem lies with people who use romantic relationships as a means of securing financial benefits or other hidden gains.According to the speaker, pretending to love someone for what they can provide, rather than for genuine affection, amounts to deception and undermines the essence of relationships.The commentator noted that while many people may make mistakes in relationships during their younger years, maturity should encourage honesty, respect, and sincerity between partners.
He urged both men and women to avoid justifying unhealthy relationship practices on the grounds that they are common in society.He also maintained that successful relationships require patience, commitment, open communication, and a willingness to understand and support one another through challenges.Addressing women in particular, the commentator advised against allowing negative experiences shared by others, especially on social media, to shape their expectations of relationships or marriage. He argued that every relationship is unique and should not be judged solely by the experiences of others.
The speaker concluded by encouraging couples to build their relationships on love, trust, mutual respect, understanding, and honest communication, describing these values as the foundation of lasting unions.
Joseph Akwagiobe is a media contributor from Cross River State, Nigeria, currently based in Abuja. He is a graduate of Microbiology and has earned several professional certifications across diverse fields, reflecting his commitment to continuous learning, professional growth, and excellence.